If there is one language everybody speaks so well in this world, it would be the love language – people express their love through different means – such as through writings, gift-giving, music, service e.t.c. However, because most people love music, they’d appreciate it more if their partner is a singer. No wonder many people have crushes on singers or celebrity singers. Even in Christendom, it happens. Again, that is one thing that is peculiar to almost every human being.
Imagine you’re seated in a quiet place, all alone in your thoughts, and a soothing voice from behind just starts singing to you, and the matter that’s causing you headache begins to fade away as you listen and watch him sing, beaming with a smile.
Now, just like Songs of Solomon said in one of his writings, imagine that voice is the voice of your beloved, how would you feel? The luckiest person on earth? The blessed one amongst others?
Whatever you call yourself is what I’ll call you too. I would love to be in your shoes. I mean, who wouldn’t love a singing partner as her husband? I bet none! As a Christian lady, here’s why bagging yourself a singer-husband is a big deal:
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Creating Memories
Music does have a way of creating lasting memories, especially during special moments of celebration in life. A song your partner sang to you will always be memorable. You can eternally bask in the love of it.
An icing on the cake would be that you’re also a singer. Your duet performance will always create a beautiful atmosphere around your home, and it can become a cherished reminder of your relationship. A typical example of this are some snippets of such beautiful moments between Lawrence & Darasimi Oyor.
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Means of Entertainment
It’s always fun having a partner that sings, it means your source of entertainment is not ending anytime soon. He can always serenade you with your favorite songs, put on impromptu concerts at your home, or even write songs about you.
Have you forgotten Folabi Nuel who dropped a whole album “Bobibi” when he was getting married to his wife, Gboremi? What about Moses Bliss and Neon Adejo? These singers are very intentional about their love lives.
Do you desire the same? That’s why you should go for it.
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Fosters Your Faith
I always imagine how the likes of Theophilus Sunday, Kaestrings, Nathaniel Bassey, Todd Dulaney, Travis Greene and others’ songs would always stir up their wives to love up on God, and build more intimacy with Him. It must have been such a great feeling married to such men.
Having a husband who understands the rudiments of his faith and carries so much the presence of God is a big flex, because you’ll most likely get to be the first partaker of the divine sound. Not only will it deepen your conviction, but it will also give you an exemplary leader to follow when it comes to relating with God, because that is your own priest.
If you desire to have a singer-husband, I pray the Lord grants your request.
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Relaxation Purpose
Of truth, listening to your partner sing can be incredibly soothing and relaxing. But how about the whole family – you, your husband, the children all get in front of musical instruments and just sing? Absolute fun!
Apart from helping everyone to de-stress after a long day and create a peaceful atmosphere in your home, it will also create an environment where everyone just lays it bare before the Lord in a fun way. Talk about having fun in a godly way, yeah? This is why I always look forward to “The Walls Group” get-together moments of worship and playing around with musical notes.
If I find it relaxing, how much more siblings? That’s the kind of environment you should long for in creating.
Having all of these adds a special spark to your relationship, creates a deeper connection between you and your lover, helps you curate your beautiful moments together, and gives free room for emotional attachment to your Creator,and with yourselves.
How seriously do you desire having a singer-husband? This is a safe space. Let’s read from you in the comment section.
